從同理孩子情緒,到引導練習分享,
建立良好手足互動
有一天早上,爸爸、媽媽來到我的床邊,臉上帶著笑容,宣布一個大消息。我才知道原來我們這個完美的三人家庭,即將迎接新成員,媽媽告訴我:「接下來你得學著分享囉。」
我說:「沒問題啊,我很期待要當姊姊了!」跟其他人分享,我做得到。我的生日要到了,我發了派對邀請卡給每個小朋友。可是到了派對那天,我發現大家的目光沒有都在我身上,我開始覺得不是滋味,發蛋糕時,我給了每個人小小一塊,然後把剩下的大塊蛋糕藏起來,因為這是我的份!可是當其它人發現這件事,他們都不太開心。我真的知道要怎麼分享嗎……
很快就到了寶寶要出生的日子,我被帶到阿公阿嬤家,我跟阿公說了我的煩惱,我擔心會把事情搞砸,爸爸、媽媽也不會再像以前那樣愛我……阿公跟我說,分享可不是件是容易的事,就連大人也不一定能做好,這是需要練習的!當弟弟終於來到,我發現一切沒有我想得那麼糟,有我可以做到的事,現在我甚至很開心我們變成四人家庭!
Everyone knows sharing is difficult, but a new sibling can be a particularly tricky challenge for lots of children. This story is a brilliantly funny take on growing families and introducing new siblings.
The determined heroine of I Really Want to Share faces this conundrum - with mixed results! A hilarious story with an important message at its heart, from the author of I Really Want the Cake (shortlisted for the Waterstones Children's Book Prize), I Really Want to Win and I Really Want to Shout .
One morning, as I lazed in bed,
my parents, smiling, came and said,
"Come snuggle up with us instead.
We've news we want to share."
That's when I learned that we, a three,
a perfect little family,
would soon be four, Mum telling me,
"You'll have to learn to share."