「We Can Do Hard Things」(我們可以迎向挑戰)
主持群從五億次播放的深度對談中,
精煉出二十個人生關鍵指引。
人生這趟旅程,總是充滿了挑戰,而我們可以如何更有勇氣地迎向這些挑戰?本書的三位作者,共同主持熱門Podcast節目「We Can Do Hard Things」,已訪問過賀錦麗、蜜雪兒‧歐巴馬、歐普拉、娜塔莉‧波曼等超過百位傑出人士,領悟了兩件重要的事:
1. 無論我們走在人生的哪一條路上,一定有其他人,也曾走過這條路。
2. 前人或同行者的智慧,可為我們照亮前方的道路。
這本書宛如一部人生的旅遊指南,以坦率、深刻的筆觸,探討愛情、友情、家庭、婚姻、育兒、人生低潮與死亡等二十個關鍵課題。在閱讀的旅程中,讀者將逐漸體會到:無論正經歷何種變遷與不確定性,即便身邊沒有可以傾訴的對象,或找不到有相似經歷的人陪伴,依然不必感到孤單。
作者之一的格倫儂‧道爾(Glennon Doyle)曾寫下登上紐約時報暢銷榜冠軍的暢銷書「我,不馴服」(Untamed),但她發覺自己年近五十,人生仍充滿疑惑:為什麼我無法快樂?我為什麼會是這樣?我怎麼知道自己想要什麼?並被診斷出有厭食的問題。而她的妹妹,同為本書作者的阿曼達(Amanda),必須堅強地與乳癌對抗;格倫儂的另一半艾比・瓦姆巴赫(Abby Wambach)是國家級女子足球運動員,成長期長年在家人的期待與性別認同間掙扎,近期則經歷手足離世的悲傷。在書中,他們勇敢揭示自己的脆弱與不完美,分享關於愛、悲傷、喜悅的人生故事。他們相信,坦率的對話是一股支持的力量,可以同時幫助自己與讀者在旅程中相伴前行,活得更勇敢、自由,足以迎向生活中的各種挑戰。(文/博客來編譯)
NEW YORK TIMES AND #1 NATIONAL BESTSELLER - The award-winning authors and podcasters Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle created We Can Do Hard Things--the guidebook for being alive--to help fellow travelers find their way through life.
When you travel through a new country, you need a guidebook. When you travel through love, heartbreak, joy, parenting, friendship, uncertainty, aging, grief, new beginnings--life--you need a guidebook, too. We Can Do Hard Things is the guidebook for being alive.Every day, Glennon Doyle spirals around the same questions: Why am I like this? How do I figure out what I want? How do I know what to do? Why can’t I be happy? Am I doing this right?
The harder life gets, the less likely she is to remember the answers she’s spent her life learning. She wonders: I’m almost fifty years old. I’ve overcome a hell of a lot. Why do I wake up every day having forgotten everything I know?
Glennon’s compasses are her sister, Amanda, and her wife, Abby. Recently, in the span of a single year, Glennon was diagnosed with anorexia, Amanda was diagnosed with breast cancer, and Abby’s beloved brother died. For the first time, they were all lost at the same time. So they turned toward the only thing that’s ever helped them find their way: deep, honest conversations with other brave, kind, wise people. They asked each other, their dearest friends, and 118 of the world’s most brilliant wayfinders: As you’ve traveled these roads--marriage, parenting, work, recovery, heartbreak, aging, new beginnings--have you collected any wisdom that might help us find our way?
As Glennon, Abby, and Amanda wrote down every life-saving answer, they discovered two things: 1. No matter what road we are walking down, someone else has traveled the same terrain.
2. The wisdom of our fellow travelers will light our way. They put all of that wisdom in one place: We Can Do Hard Things--a place to turn when you feel clueless and alone, when you need clarity in the chaos, or when you want wise company on the path of life. We are all life travelers. We don’t have to travel alone. We Can Do Hard Things is our guidebook. Featuring wisdom from: ALOK - Sara Bareilles - Dr. Yaba Blay - Kate Bowler - adrienne maree brown - Brandi Carlile - Brittney Cooper - Brittany Packnett Cunningham - Kaitlin Curtice - Megan Falley - Jane Fonda - Stephanie Foo - Ashley C. Ford - Ina Garten - Roxane Gay - Andrea Gibson - Elizabeth Gilbert - Dr. Orna Guralnik - Tricia Hersey - Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson - Luvvie Ajayi Jones - Dr. Becky Kennedy - Emily Nagoski - Esther Perel - Ai-Jen Poo - Cole Arthur Riley - Dr. Alexandra Solomon - Cheryl Strayed - Sonya Renee Taylor - Ocean Vuong - And many others