Bullying: What Are We Really Scared Of?

Announced as the Best Self Help Book by the Pacific Book Awards for 2018 and a Finalist in the Book Excellence Awards in the Self Help category for 2019

Winner of the Pacific Book Awards 2018 - Best Self Help book

Finalist of the Book Excellence Awards 2019 in the Self Help category

Have all your questions answered with this comprehensive guide to bullying. From the school yard through to the workplace, cyber bullying, domestic violence, even elder abuse, this book covers all areas of bullying.

Why you were chosen, why you responded the way you did, why no one would step in to help you and how to stop it? Understanding bullying is crucial to defeating it, learning how the bullies think will tell you what tactics they will use and when you know those, you can counter them to defeat the bully. With practice, you can stop the bullies before they start.

This informative book challenges the current "system" response of victim blaming and punishment and lays the foundation for a successful way of dealing with bullies.

The author gives realistic, affordable and affective solutions to the bullying problem. Often supporters do not know what to say to victims, their words can sound accusatory, even a tone of voice is sometimes all it takes to send a victim into the deepest abyss. There are many hints and tips for parents, friends, teachers, and supporters in this book.

Bullies are really not that scary when you understand them, in fact, they are easy to control when you know how. Put all bullies in their place today, order your copy of Bullying What are we really scared of?

Born into Humanity a few decades ago, raised in Australia, suffering an injury in my late teens leaving me with a permanent and painful physical disability. I have learnt to overcome and bounce back from the worst that life can throw at me, accomplishing whatever I set my mind to. Bullies have been a major unwarranted part of my life, either because I did not ＂conform＂ to society’s standards or because of their own ＂insecurities＂. Over the years I have learnt how to deal with them effectively and efficiently, much to their disgust they learn the hard way that I wasn’t the easy target they thought I was. Being disabled makes me a bigger target, whilst most view this as a hindrance, I see it as a good opportunity to teach a bully a valuable lesson, one they won’t forget in a hurry. I am discouraged with how bullying has been allowed to flourish by the overwhelmed and under resourced Police Services and the underwhelming lack of process Governments have taken to bring the Laws up to today’s standards. I am also quite concerned about misguided ＂opinions and advice＂ being given to victims putting them at risk of further harm. This strongly encourages me to step in to help humanity find its way before the problem worsens beyond control. Victims of abuse, myself included, have suffered for far too long at the hands of bullies. It is apparent that no one has come up with the solutions because the problem has escalated, yet here I am bully free and happy. I have found the right formula, the right attitude and know all of their secrets, they really aren’t that ＂scary＂ after all, when you know the truth. With decades of experience, education and research along with my philosophies on life, I know the only way to control bullying is for us, the people to take charge of it. I offer my words of wisdom and my services to your community to show how to take back control. I am prepared to put my words into action, if required, I will travel to the ends of the earth to teach you all that bullies are really easy to control, the challenge is, are communities willing to work together to solve this problem?